Communication is my kink.
Clarity turns me on.
Vulnerability feeds me.

I’m not interested in unicorn hunters.
I’m not interested in white men or white women.
My focus is Black men, Black women, Black NB, and Queer folks.

No — I don’t want to be your “first.”
No — I will not change my mind.
No — we can’t “just chat” so you can feel me out.

you have my permission to DM me directly. I’ll answer you.

Full transparency is the minimum requirement

To truly connect with me, you need to be between 28 and 47.
Don’t tell me you’re “different.” You’re not.
Don’t tell me you’re “mature for your age.” I’ve heard it before.

My energy is only available if:

  • You speak clearly.
  • You show up consistently.
  • You are emotionally literate.
  • You honor my time.
  • You respect my fire
  • You’re self-accountable.
  • You want to share my power, not just feed off it.
    If you want intimacy without reciprocity, or attention without intention — we’re not a match.If my passion threatens you you’re not ready. If you don’t plan, follow through, and communicate — I’m gone. If you can’t name what you want or how you feel, you don’t get me. opens for people who know how to walk in without burning