The Chalice That Never Empties

They say: “You’re only ENM because you want to cheat without guilt.”

But those words are shallow, spoken by mouths that fear the depth of truth.

If I hungered only for pleasure without consequence, I could do what so many men already do: lie.

Whisper sweet nothings. Pretend at devotion. Disguise betrayal with flowers and empty vows.

That is the easy path. The coward’s path.

But my life is built on integrity sharpened into steel.

I do not lie. I do not shrink.

I stand in the open, naked in truth.

To speak my desire aloud is to invite judgment, to summon contempt.

But I accept that crucifixion.

Because ENM is not escape. It is not indulgence.

It is covenant. Expansion. A refusal to mutilate the heart into scarcity when it was forged for abundance.

Monogamy has often felt like a cell:

twenty-three hours in confinement, one hour of stale air.

But ENM — ah, ENM is the sky without walls,

a storm with no horizon,

a freedom tempered by responsibility.

Do not mistake me: I do not love less when I love more.

Each bond burns with its own fire.

Each person receives the fullness of me.

I am cursed and blessed, like a priest whose chalice never empties —

no matter how many drink, the wine remains.

Sometimes love awakens in the smallest spark:

two hands brushing in passing, a flash of lightning across the skin.

Why should I chain that current, forbid the seed to sprout,

simply because another flower already blooms in my garden?

Love is not a ration. It is not prison food.

Love multiplies. Love overflows. Love is infinite.

And ENM is not only love — it is architecture.

It is the building of life outside the blueprint of scarcity.

Shared burdens, lightened by many hands.

Finances braided into ropes that climb us out of poverty into legacy.

An emotional ecosystem — one soul offering peace, another fire, another laughter, another wisdom.

No single person crushed under the impossible weight of “everything.”

This is not chaos. This is design.

This is not cheating. This is covenant.

A web woven with honesty, accountability, expansion.

So I say: stop fearing abundance.

Stop caging infinity.

Stop binding the heart to scarcity when it was born to overflow.

I do not choose ENM because I must.

I choose it because I can.

Because my blood sings freedom.

Because my heart refuses to shrink.

Because love is too vast, too holy, too dangerous to ever be caged.

✨ Love without limits. Build without boundaries. Live without fear. ✨